First and foremost you have to remember that if you're dedicated to a shaving regime your skin irritation will go away... But it will take time. My suggestion is to look up some online articles to tell you the proper way, but here are some tips I can give you. 1. Trim your pubic hair first, not only will this make shaving a billion times easier, but it prevents your razor from getting clogged up and dull. 2. Use a new razor, and if you're really serious about it, it's recommended that you use a separate razor for your pussy than the one you use for your legs. 3. Shave thoroughly, but don't shave over the same spot more than twice - this will increase the amount of razor bumps you get. 4. Use plenty of shaving cream or shaving oil (the trick for me, that really cut down on shaving irritation was to use a product called Shave Secret - you can get it at any WalMart - I have sensitive skin also, and I had next to no razor bumps after using it) 4. Exfoliate the area you shaved once you are done. 5. Moisturize the area as soon as you get out of the shower and at least once a day after that. 6. Do NOT shave again until your razor bumps are gone, it will only cause you to bleed and your skin won't heal. If your Dom has a problem with it, just explain that to him. I think that's all the advice I have to give. Also, after going through about a bottle and a half of Shave Secret (and using it on my legs as well as my pussy) I switched to regular shaving cream and had absolutely no problem. But the real key to is to shave as often as possible (as soon as the razor bumps go down). This will force your skin to adjust. Hope this helps!!