I am already wandering, sort of. I am married to someone else, although we are talking about splitting up when the economy recovers enough that we can sell the house for, oh, the outstanding mortgage? Husband knows about lover and is understanding, if not completely thrilled. Husband and I are keeping up the facade for the 8-yr old, who doesn't need to know Mom and Dad are falling apart on her.
Right now, I don't want to wander-I want my Dog, top, bottom or vanilla, or just to sleep next to for a few nights. I would like to explore a third in our relationship at some point, but I would rather do it together. I am not thrilled that Dog needs to wander on occasion, but I would rather have him wander and return than lose him because I held on too tightly. That may change someday, but for right now, I am too twitterpated with him to always think clearly about him. (Don't you just love Disney words? It's from Bambi, in case you don't remember it.)