Me, too. I just worry that, should I ever trust this much again-to let another man know about my submissive streak-I may trust too much, having been spoiled by Dog. If, my dear BDSM compatriots, you find me in a new kink relationship, try and remind me to watch for safety? I know it is my responsibility to watch out for my own skin, but if I get this twitterpated again I may be stupid for a while and would appreciate the reality slap upside the head. I see us reminding each other all the time on this site--I would just hope for one of those reminders to show up if/when I need it.
So, just in case anyone is just falling into love/lust right now: REMEMBER, Safe, Sane, and Consensual is the only absolute rule in this game. No pleasure is worth actually endangering your life or limbs. If s/he loves/lusts you back, s/he will want both of you to be safe, too--if only so you can keep playing!