DTO53688--I see that we have kind of lost track of this thread. Did you say that everything worked out? If you still want suggestions from subs (i.e., not Oz) how about telling us some of what you do already? We can't tell you how to be more sadistic if we don't know how sadistic you are. One suggestion, a joke of sorts by my lover/Master:

Sub: Beat me, hurt me, please.
Dom/me: No.
It really can be the meanest thing you could do-Dog and I are in a LDR, and I swear, sometimes my butt aches from not getting my swats from him. It hurts from not hurting. Weird, huh?