I think I might qualify as one of those "silent" male subs. I go into the chat room from time to time but don't last there for very long because I don't really know anyone and the people on there all seem to know each other and have a running dialogue that's very hard to break into. I do browse the forums and participate in the Task Academy (which is a GREAT idea!) but overall have noticed a fairly general lack of response to most places where I have participated. The Tasking Academy is great because It's been near impossible to find a domme who wants to chat because it seems like every time they raise their head they get hounded by a bunch of fake subs (I'm sure you know what I'm talking about).

I haven't migrated to another place because there isn't really another place for me to go and though this hasn't been a perfect fit, it's the best that I've found. The forums are a great resource!