i'm having a lot of trouble learning to be submissive in my RL marriage. i am angry, resentful and argumentative, and i don't enjoy being corrected or punished. i want to do this right though--help please!

It may be becuase submission just isnt in the cards for you...or the one your trying to submit too isnt the right fit or not a capable dominant for you.

It certiantly doesnt help that your trying to submit to someone who you once dominated. Also I know when someone who has dominated me before but then turns around and submits to me is forever in my mind never going to regain said dominance.

How does submission make you feel?

That depends on a wide variety of situations and the individuals involved in my submission.

Why do you submit?

Becuase I have too. Ive tried going away from it before and its just too much a part of me for me to be otherwise

How do you resist arguing?

If the other person is dominant enough for me I dont have to "resist" in all other cases a little self disipline goes a long way.

Any advice?

Dont try to make a square peg fit in a round hole.