I personally think if you don't like it then you don't need it, unless your dom is into it and you go along to please him.

I enjoy the humiliating/degrading aspects of things that we do, and possibly I am more easily humiliated by mild things than some, but it does do something for me that I can't explain. I don't feel like it devalues me as a person, and there are certain kinds of things that are more arousing and some that would just make me feel bad. Then there are the ones that start out bad and become arousing over time.

The story I wrote recently has a theme of humiliation, the way I see it anyway, and also is sensation based rather than pain. You can take a look and see if you agree.

http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/sh...s-only-fantasy...