VeniVidi, and ksst thank you so much for your input...
ksst...it not that i just want to along with it for Him...i want to understand it...*the kink* in it...i understand pain much easier...BTW ~going along just to please Him...sounds like a bit NO NO to me...??? mmm another topic to talk about
VV...i read the link about Delia post.....like how did i miss that? thank you so much blows a kiss xx