this Thread is great is a man it is a big taboo i have given it it to my ex g/f and they had done it befor so they know how far they would go as i'm v/sub in bed but i'm thinking more and more about having it done to me but never had the nover to ask them but from what i have read here i will wait till i find some one i can tust to take it slowly for me it would be the most sub act i can do for them