*smiling*
Not at all. I have been thinking back on my first experiences the past (almost) year. And when i was helping this sub, i just needed some reassurance about my ideas and perceptions of a Dom(me) responsibilities.

I absolutely agree that the sub has a responsibility too....maybe i should start a thread about that in the submissives section of the forums.

But i think Your reply highlights something subs easily forget. That mistakes can be made and it can be dangerous. Physically but also emotionally.

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