I have to say I whole heartedly agree. I 'lost my virginity' pretty late-well mid twenties anyway, but as a competitive horse rider and feminine hygiene product user, my hymen broke many years before that. And honestly now a days with the sorts of life styles that women lead it is very uncommon to have intact 'hymen' at the time of first experience of penetrative sex in any event-you may or may not still be 'intact' but this bears no relation on wether or not you are a 'virgin' as sassy chikk so eloquently pointed out. If this is something that is important to you for personal, religious or cultural reasons, you can certainly minimise the risk of your hymen breaking by not using any penetrative products/items and by avoiding any strenuous physical exercise, but there is no guarantee that you will still be 'intact' even so. Like most things in life it is all about using common sense-in this case to decide what you personally feel comfortable doing/ using and what you don't.