I was 17 and watched a documentary on the art of bondage on tv... that got me very exited. while researching bondage on the net i found so much mor. in retrospective i had bdsmurges as far back as the age of 12.
my fascination with the lifestyle grew and i started chatting, reading and selfbondage.
by now i am married with someone who is happy to do as he likes with me in the bedroom but still indulge in a lot of erotic literature.. because my mind takes a big part in this...