Lily26 - What a great subect, was discussing this with my Master recently.

And D2P - I feel I have just read something I might have written myself! You must be a fantastically wonderful person too” - *giggling at my massive ego!*

"I am one hundred percent in control in my everyday life. I am bold...stubborn...outspoken, opinionated and demanding"


I have always been an incredibly independent person. I left home at a very young age and have worked hard and aimed high in everything I have done. I now work in the almost entirely male dominated whisky industry, in which I run a small business and sit on a handful of committees. What I do for a living brings me into contact with strangers in somewhat social situations, when doing tastings/presentations, so I have never been shy at coming forward and meeting new people and I love being the centre of attention socially too, always quick with a one-liner!

As for attracting submissive men I'm with you on that one too. They are like moths to a flame! I suppose I initially love the attention that a submissive person gives out but inevitably it wears thin and their apathy and indecisiveness drives me away in the end. With my last relationship I spent years dreaming that one day he would walk in the door from work, throw me about and ravish me! Of course it never happened, it just wasn't in his nature and our sex-life suffered for it. By the time the relationship ended I truly believe I had left him mentally castrated, not intentionally, but I definitely left that relationship with the only set of balls!

I think that my desire to be dominated comes as a direct result of this outward strength and independence. This is one area of my life I can happily relinquish control, I can let go and allow someone else take the lead. This release is of course hugely sexually stimulating for me and I am so glad that I realised that I could actively find someone and a lifestyle more compatible to my needs.