hi mims,

not sure if im the best to be giving you advice, as i am pretty sure im in the same position as you (broke up with my partner a few months ago, i like it rough/virtually a slave to him) however i have gone through a few guys and much prefer it to be someone i have known for a while, that i trust and can depend on....

if your in it to be just getting a master/mistress and getting sex no strings... there still needs to be a level of trust, tlike that the guy/girl knows your limits, and will stop if you need to stop. a few of my friends have used clubbing or those "find and fuck" websites and apps to meet someone that is into the same sort of stuff, getting to know them, and letting them know what there intentions are/what they want from a fuck-buddy.