Great thread lily, great answers too.

Well just for the record, I always have to be in control. I never really thought about anything else throughout most of my adult life.

I became famous very quickly when I started a job some years ago by saying 'we can do it my way, or we can do it the hard way'.

One thing katie said to me that made me think was that I don't always need to be in control. Not sure about that one, but yeah.

I have however, managed to support my wife in being one of the most powerful & confident women I've known- I can't be totally overbearing.

Tojo