Very thoughtful topic, Lily 26. It's interesting to hear what everyone says. The trend continues with me - I am a very outgoing, confident person in real life....maybe even agressive. I manage a retail store and have a lot of independence in my job. I'm the boss, the problem-solver, the cheer leader, the janitor, the counselor, the juggler of so many things..... relenquishing this control with a strong partner is something I desire and hope to find.

The thing I've never put together is what others have said about a strong woman attracting submissive men. Picture me slapping my forehead with palm saying "aha!" It's a big reason my marriage ended.

Lily26, I agree that finding a stronger man is part of this journey....

Thanks for sharing, all!