lily,
we have much in common

i work fulltime outside of the home, in a demanding career where i am management. i am expected to lead, make decisions that affect the business, my employees and my customers all day every day. while i am good at it (if i do say so myself) it goes against everything in my personality....the one i have when i walk out the door.

for me, though i am a sub 100% of the time, my work requires me to act in a different way. it doesn't change what i am at all but i do it because that is what i get paid to do, its that simple

there is nothing better than walking out of there at the end of the day and knowing that its all out of my hands now....