my journey

[cadence]

It is wonderful to read your story and share in your celebration with the progression you and your Dom have made thus far.

Your thoughful insights and unending optimism will undoubtedly help others who share a similar situation develop and grow just as you have.

[suchaminx]

tessa

Your continued sharing of your journey always makes me smile. I might have said this before but watching how you have changed has been wonderful. Thank you for sharing it with us.

I remember the 'tessa' who first found us and whilst I know you are still you, I feel now we getting the real tessa who hopes and wishes are coming true

I love the quote - its not perfect but it ours made me feel all warm and fuzzy

~hugs, smiles and kisses~

minxy xxx

[tessa]

D-licious, you are a doll, in spirit and in looks. Thanks for being such a sweetie!

Louise, I appreciate your friendship and your encouragement. They both mean so much to me!

pixie, knowing that more good times are ahead for us makes me smile. Thanks for that! So good to know that you're settling in so wonderfully and are happy!

cadence? Will you come with me to my next family get-together and tell them you think I'm optimistic? I'd like to see the look on their faces when you do! Thank you for sharing in this with me. ~hugs~

~looks over to minxy~ Ok, I'm just telling it like it is. I'm head over heels for you. That's all there is to it. Spread it around the Forums...tessa has a major crush on minxy!

~hugs to all my friends~

[Psynymph]

tessa your so hot!

*licks*

sorry i don't really have anything else to add that hasnt already been so eloquently spoken by previous goddess-like subbies.

so tessa.... when are you posting some pics in the Self Portraits forum?? huh? Where's your husband? let me talk to Him. i'll convince Him to let you......

[DareDevil]

tessa your so hot!

*licks*

sorry i don't really have anything else to add that hasnt already been so eloquently spoken by previous goddess-like subbies.

so tessa.... when are you posting some pics in the Self Portraits forum?? huh? Where's your husband? let me talk to Him. i'll convince Him to let you......

I'm right here.

So? Convince me, little girl.

[gagged_Louise]

Psynymph: you realize it's Tessa herself in her new avatar?

[Dorkalicious]

*giggles at the recent happenings in the thread*

*waves at Tessa's hubby* Wanna share? Lol

[DareDevil]

To Dorkalicious- If I share, you'll be at the top of the list. My tessa thinks you're "really cute"...her words. I saw your picture and have to agree.

[Psynymph]

lol oh yes Louise, i know.... *drool*

*giggles at DD* convince Ya huh? *looks all kinds of sweet and innocent, licks her lips*

so tessa remember you wanted me to teach you to belly dance? come here darling and lets have class......

[Dorkalicious]

To Dorkalicious- If I share, you'll be at the top of the list. My tessa thinks you're "really cute"...her words. I saw your picture and have to agree.

Haha, for a second there I thought I was too young or somethin for your kind of fun xD, hahaha -- Or perhaps that I can't belly dance >.> Hehehe

I'm so happy she thinks I'm cute! *blush*

~runs into the room, looking at all the nice things being said~

D-licious!!! Yum!!! Share time with you would be sweet! Just like you. Seriously, though, I want to borrow that red shirt you are wearing in that pic of yours. But have it on so I can unlace it. Please?? ~yums up that image~

Hehehehe......awwwwwwwwww...This thread is to compliment you darling! *huggles*

And as for that red shirt? Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm. I'd love to share it with ya! *likes the sound of that, hehehe*

[tessa]

D-lish, you, me, that shirt...sharing all over the place! Where did you get it?? I think the reason I love it so much is 'cause of what's in it (that'd be you), but still, that shirt is freakin' awesome!

Ok, I know that there is a "Today I learned" thread over there ~points~, but I'm putting mine for today here.

Today I learned that making my Master proud causes incredibly good things to happen. I mean incredible!

~sighs happily~

[Ronn]

Am so happy for you dear as things progress in the direction you desire for both yourself and your husband. Continued happiness in your journey for you both

[tessa]

~hugs ronn silly~

Thanks, sweetie!

tessa

[gagged_Louise]

*hugs Tessa tight, thinking of what a good day's work she's doing of being perverted*

[caligirl{Rob}]

big hugs tessa, i have so enjoyed reading your journey *big smiles* as i try to move forward on my own, i've appreciated beyond words your honesty and humor, more big hugs!
cali

[tessa]

Aww! Thanks caligirl, what a sweet thing to say! May your journey be as beautiful as you ever dreamed. ~hugs~

~hugs Louise real tight in hopes of dragging her into the perverted corner~

[caligirl{Rob}]

i only wish i had your bravery tessa, smiles! with more hugs!

cali

ps: ronn is right that you are a special person

[tessa]

i only wish i had your bravery tessa, smiles! with more hugs!

cali

ps: ronn is right that you are a special person

~looks around and around, trying to spot the brave one cali mentioned~

I'm not brave, not even a thimble full of it. But you are such a darling to think so! ~hugs you up~

pss. ronn is just adorable, isn't he? Always bringing a smile with him wherever he goes.

[orchid]

great post tessa
i can relate to your comment about the day to day mentality of it
as i have said before, my Husband waivers in this lifestyle, which makes his Dom days few and far between. i am still the same...at least i think i am...maybe i better think about that again...i think that i treat Him consistently regardless if he is in Dom-mode or not but its not easy.

[tessa]

my Husband waivers in this lifestyle, which makes his Dom days few and far between. i am still the same...at least i think i am...maybe i better think about that again...i think that i treat Him consistently regardless if he is in Dom-mode or not but its not easy.

Wow, orchid. I think you sent that very thought to me earlier, as I had it. I am not sure if I am consistent enough, but I'm trying. Anything in particular you do to help yourself in this way? If so, I'd love to know what it is?

I will say this about it all- the way we communicate with each other is a million percent better now as opposed to before.

And the sex is phenomenal! Can't fail to mention that!

[jeanne]

I will say this about it all- the way we communicate with each other is a million percent better now as opposed to before.

Ours is about 100% better, working on that million! (if I keep working on letting go of my embarrassment and fear of "what is he going to think!")

And the sex is phenomenal! Can't fail to mention that!

Oh god yes! LOL

What fun you are, tessa! Have a great weekend!

[tessa]

~tries to peek down Fae's shirt to see her, umm...qualifications?~

and she's especially fond of hearing other people's sensual, lewd and kinky ideas

Ah, darling, you know me so well.

~hugs Louise all up~ You are just yummy!!

[Selash]

Deepest Heart felt thanks for the warm welcome. I will gladly take in all and anything anyone is willing to share. Thanks for all the help so far and I hope someday I can help someone that needs it.

[MajesticFae]

~tries to peek down Fae's shirt to see her, umm...qualifications?~



Ah, darling, you know me so well.

~hugs Louise all up~ You are just yummy!!

Maybe you'll get lucky one day, Tessa, and I'll decide to post pictures of them!

[Rhabbi]

Tessa,

I think this is the first time I have posted to your thread, but I do follow it. I enjoy all your thouights and the conflicts in your life, and the wat you are open enough to let all of us share in your growth.

First and Formost. I would like to introduce myself, I know this isnt really the main location for this, but I figured this was a good place full of good people. I am Selash, I am new to the lifestyle. While I am a Dom, I am also trying to find myself, I have sub qualitys also. So I dont really know where I fit in. But thanks you all "DD, Tessa, Wolf, Sir Russell, and everyone else to numerious to name' I am beginning to understand more about me and my role in life. I wont step on Tessa's or Mr. DD toes by bringing my own story into this thread, but you all have trully been an asset to me and I am very thankful to be part of this community. I hope to beable to post more and learn ever more.

Selash.

Hello and welcome Selash, confusion is normal at first. Speaking as a dom, I think you should explore your sub tendancies because they will make you a better Dom in the long run. good luck on your quest.

Maybe you'll get lucky one day, Tessa, and I'll decide to post pictures of them!

Hey I vote for the pictures, but I like boobs. to be honest, I like everything about the female anatomy. And I truly appreciate your creativity.

[tessa]

Maybe you'll get lucky one day, Tessa, and I'll decide to post pictures of them!

Please, please?? With a pretty on top??

Maybe pictures will come in due time... if I can get up the nerve to take some! *blush*

Anything I can do to build up those nerves, you just let me know!

I think tessa should join me in the boobie picture taking, since hers are supposedly big enough to enter as well!

I'm flashing a bit of mine in my av, but hmm. Maybe we could get together, do a pic thing. Delicious prospect, Fae.

[orchid]

well, i dont think i really do anything

its just a matter of trying to remain true to myself and what i want and need from our relationship

regardless of whether or not he is in dom-mode, i still yearn to serve him and please him so i just keep doing what i normally do.

i will admit that there are times, though, when he is not in dom-mode, that i have done things that i wouldn't normally do - like if he asks me to get him a drink, ill say no, or get it yourself or what do i get out of it - its certainly not anything i would ever consider saying any other time but for some reason, when hes just being a 'normal' guy, im not worried about it

if im being honest, part of it is probably being done to get a rise out of him and push him into being a dom...not that it works, mind you...he doesnt fall for that and i do catch it later for those occurences.

ill have to think about it more and then add to this if i think of anything of substance to add...i never really thought about it before but i will now.

orchid

[tessa]

ill have to think about it more and then add to this if i think of anything of substance to add...i never really thought about it before but i will now.

I look forward to anything you have to say. Learning from others is a great perk of this place.

his_j, you have great weekend as well...with all the p.s. you can handle. (that's code for phenomenal sex )

[suchaminx]

tessa ~smiles and hugs~

you may be learning from others but I am convinced that your words and your honesty are helping others too

more smiles and hugs

minxy xx

[pixie_dust]

you may be learning from others but I am convinced that your words and your honesty are helping others too

Have to agree with this one...you inspire patience and tolerance in all of us, tessa. Thanks for being you!!