This is a question i posed on n another forum but becausee many people who paste here does not go to that forum, i thought of posting this here. This is something I have been thinking of alot recently...

I have only recently learned that I really love implact play. Floggers, canes, paddles and also just a good old fashioned bare hand!

But I do wonder if, when You started to slap (or spank or paddle or cane or flog) your submissive, whether You initially felt an apprehension at the social no-no of hitting someone else?

And face-slapping? For some reason, I think, it is even less socially acceptable to slap a womans face than perhaps her bottom. Do You agree. Is it something You do/enjoy. Was there a natural apprehension to overcome?


How did You overcome this?