When a Dom and I end our relationship I end up feeling GREAT the next day. I feel like i can do anything and world is my oyster! I run off into the world looking for adventure and what not and look back at times missing the sex.

When a sub and I end our relationship i feel like shit. I feel like I've lost my world and my connection to it. Like I'm lost.

I can talk about the first Dom I had, the connection we shared. I can do it without crying.

I can not talk about my first sub without breaking down into tears, getting drunk, singing some Irish song of sorrow.

Is this a preference or do i just CARE more for my subs than I do my Doms? Do other switches feel the same way?