Molestation, well, thats something i can actually talk about here...

so well... i havnt been pure since i was 5 years old (or so....) there are court records of it and everything , at age 5ish my grandfather (or my moms boyfriend at the time... i still dont know....) molested me, since then i have been TERRIFIED of older men. after that i spent the next few years (until recently) punishing myself for something i couldnt have fixed, for me BDSM is therapy, it makes me normal the abuse i suffered made me a submissive and BDSM makes that bearable and keeps me from hurting myself.

before BDSM was introduced to me i:
was molested at ages 5, 9, 14, 19 and raped by the same person at age 19, why? because i couldnt say no, no one had told me i could. BDSM gave me a fallback , gave me a voice, gave me rules and safeguards with which to protect myself.

but back on topic... for me being molested made me who i am, it made me both weaker and stronger, but overall BDSM is who i am, i am a submissive and damn proud.