I don't have anyone to spank me so I generally resort to self spanking. I know its not the same because I am always in control but it is the best I have. I also like other forms of self punishment. I am not so much in the mindset that I need these things as much as I want them. Its strictly a pleasure thing with me....well most of the time anyway lol. I guess sometimes I spank myself because I think I need it. Anyway. Any ideas that would aid me in this would be greatly appreciated. I also posted a personal in the submissive personal section so if anyone would be interested in that I would be very grateful. Thanks for your time!