I have a really bad habit. And it's really a basic thing too. I keep forgetting to call my dom Sir. Not all the time. But sometimes I don't and I can't figure out why it's so hard. I'll fall over myself trying to do something he asked but then I'll forget to say Sir. I don't know why it's such an issue with me.

I've been spanked and whipped, he's halted sex and denied me orgasms. It's only helped a little.

This is my first real D/s relationship so I'm hoping it's just something I need to get used to. But I'm getting frustrated with myself. It's the simplest way I can show respect and I can't remember to do it every time. I'm gonna keep trying, and I'm really greatful he's been so patient.