i am desperately trying to learn what i want. i have so very little experience it is embarrassing. i am often asked what my limits are etc, but to be honest i don't know, so i try to take things slow so i can learn what i like. Now i am sure that a lot of you will be saying, well whats the problem with that? Well the problem is that a few of the Doms who have contacted me seem to get incredibly frustrated with me. One even said that i cant be a real sub because if i was i would be open to doing anything that was suggested to me by an experienced Dom, or that i should not be so focused on my pleasure. Should i just give up or am i just getting a clutch of 'bad' Dom.s?