So I am new to the whole bdsm d/s life style and as I have been reading learning and talking to people one of the biggest things that comes up is go slow, talk to people, and learn about yourself so this is me heeding that advise and saying I would love to talk to or hear from subs on their experiences good or bad and what they feel is the best track in starting into a lifestyle that seems vastly different from the norm so please anything you say is helpful thank you in advance