Persaius
01-16-2009, 02:11 PM
I've recently become interested in writing, so I guess I can call myself an amateur writer. I'm mainly interested in research so I can write erotica novels. As if you couldn't tell what I write by my being here. I'm married, have a 1 and a half year old son and probably am more curious than I should be. I'm always the sexually curious one.
I've read books on BDSM, but reading is not the same as talking one on one. It's a whole other aspect, a whole other depth. I would hate to write about something ignorantly or inaccurately--especially if it's inaccurate crap.
In my life I've only done light bondage. I would be lying if I said my interest is completely innocent. Handled correctly, I'm sure there the line of pleasure and pain can be blurred for phenomenal experiences, I just can't say I've experienced much of them. To some extent, absolutely, but not enough to be knowledgeable. My husband in a closet dom so to speak. He has potential, but it clashes with some of his traditional ideas.
Would I love to be a domme? Probably to try it, but I don't know how serious i would be. Ultimately, giving up control... even the idea of it, is pretty arousing. Hence why I'm curious and researching.
I've read books on BDSM, but reading is not the same as talking one on one. It's a whole other aspect, a whole other depth. I would hate to write about something ignorantly or inaccurately--especially if it's inaccurate crap.
In my life I've only done light bondage. I would be lying if I said my interest is completely innocent. Handled correctly, I'm sure there the line of pleasure and pain can be blurred for phenomenal experiences, I just can't say I've experienced much of them. To some extent, absolutely, but not enough to be knowledgeable. My husband in a closet dom so to speak. He has potential, but it clashes with some of his traditional ideas.
Would I love to be a domme? Probably to try it, but I don't know how serious i would be. Ultimately, giving up control... even the idea of it, is pretty arousing. Hence why I'm curious and researching.