Hi to all

[Misfit]

Thought i'd best leave a message saying hello, i'm new to this site and will prob spend a little time looking around before i start posting much. Both me and my girlfriend are just starting to get in to the bdsm fetish night/club scene and have only attended 2 very small events so we are talking alot about what we want to get out of going to better organised events but would also like to find some people who are more experienced in this scene to help us understand what really goes on. Anyway enough rambling on from me, i best shut up and say "hi to everyone" :wave:

[~hellish one~]

hellooo!!! :wave: welcome to the forums! take your time looking around and getting to know people! :) it took me a couple of weeks after i first signed up before i was able to start talking to people. but i'm all shy like that! ~grin~

[TheDeSade]

Hello! . . . Im real shy too. Just ask anyone around here. This is a great place to learn and to seek advice. There is a wealth of experience and knowledge both in the forums and in the people who habitate this place. Read, listen, ask and enjoy.

[moptop]

Oh, yeah, that TDS chappy, sooooo shy! never says a thing. I'm shy too, but it's such fun I can't resist! Enjoy looking around - there's lots of really useful info. & lots of very helpful people here.

[Havensov]

don't be shy no ones going to judge you here.... or at least.... OK we will but in good ways...

but your already working down the right path by talking about what you want out of BDSM and where to go. I have a check list of fetishes that i found to very helpful in figuring out what i wanted.

[Psynymph]

yes the one thing i LOVE about this site is that everyone is so accepting of all things. we're a very open-minded lot and our threads show it!!

don't worry though....you'll be pulled into our discussion and games just like everyone else was!! muwhahah!

have fun and welcome!!!

[MsUther]

Hello and welcome Misfit :wave:

[Flaming_Redhead]

:welcomebo

What really goes on?!!! *quickly hides the implements* Nothin to see here. Keep movin people! *ggls and waves arms in squiggly fashion* You didn't see anything. This is a dream.

Today is Dunce Day! *places a cone-shaped paper hat on your head and makes you sit on a stool in the corner*

[ObeyMe]

Welcome misfit!

[suchaminx]

~smiles~ hello and welcome

this is a great place to be and I am sure you will feel right at home

~hugs~ minx

[Misfit]

Thanks for the kind welcom all :-)

[cariad]

Hello Misfit and :wel to your girlfriend.

IDCrewDawg posted something which you might find helpful...

http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/showthread.php?t=6489 - the sixth post down that thread.

I hope you have success finding what you are looking for both here, and in the great wide world beyond cyberspace.

Cael digrifwch

cariad

[frankee]

Hi Misfit,

Welcome to the forums. Have a look around and enjoy yourself and have fun!