Thought i'd best leave a message saying hello, i'm new to this site and will prob spend a little time looking around before i start posting much. Both me and my girlfriend are just starting to get in to the bdsm fetish night/club scene and have only attended 2 very small events so we are talking alot about what we want to get out of going to better organised events but would also like to find some people who are more experienced in this scene to help us understand what really goes on. Anyway enough rambling on from me, i best shut up and say "hi to everyone"