Orgasms

[Echoes]

ok, while I am really out here embarrassing myself. Talking in the women ejaculation thread got me to wondering.

Is there any way an orgasm can be described?

And being each orgasm is different; clittoral, g spot, anal, and god from kissing, biting the neck in a certain spot, inside of thighs on a certain nerve, cock penetrating that tiny ring in the back of ones throat...nipples alone, flogging alone...the violet wand brings instant orgasm to whatever it touches...What other orgasms can you add here and rate the intensity, if it is sharp, soft, affecting surrounding close nerve endings or spreading through your whole abdomenem or right down to your toes...more?

Do you squirt with what ones. Do you gush inside so much that this too almost squirts out of you or having an orgasm that doesn't stop unless stimulation is not taken away...or you pass out?

what orgasms do you enjoy the most, enjoy the least (if there ever is such a thing) :rolleyes:

forgive me if there is a thread already started on this.

[TheDeSade]

gee echoes.. . I enjoy any that I am involved in. . . grins

[Echoes]

gee echoes.. . I enjoy any that I am involved in. . . grins

oh yeah and guys, while we are here adding our two cents, come on fess up how it is for you, are there differences for you, it must fluctuate in intesinsity...where does this flood your senses, is it sharp or a soft feeling on release...come on...tell us all :rose:

mutters something about someone being a smartalec...shee!

[TheDeSade]

Geez. . . . everyone is different. . . . how to describe. . . . . Ill have to work on that . . maybe do some reasearch . . . now I need a research assistant

[Echoes]

Geez. . . . everyone is different. . . . how to describe. . . . . Ill have to work on that . . maybe do some reasearch . . . now I need a research assistant

ahh, so sorry TDS, I am trying to finish this darn poem *weg* I know someone else would gladly volunteer for your assignment!
*hugs*

[TheDeSade]

heheheh.. . . . ok echoes. . . . . . Ill work on it . . . . get back to you tomorrow

[Echoes]

heheheh.. . . . ok echoes. . . . . . Ill work on it . . . . get back to you tomorrow

ya better ;)

[TheDeSade]

by the way . . I really like the new avatar. . . . . really!. . . very much!!!!

[Echoes]

thank you, I thought it was a good place to start :)
Yours is...mmmm, very mad doctor/scientist sort isn't it? Is this a part of you also :)

[TheDeSade]

it is kind of a reaction to somethings that happened around here the last few days. . . . sort of a take on me as perceived by some people

[Echoes]

thought something might be up from your poem...wanna talk about it?

[TheDeSade]

not just yet. . . . . . but thanks... .

[ObeyMe]

Ok, back to the matter at hand so to speak.

As a Male I know I personally experience different levels of contractual completion. With the difference in My case being mental stimulation levels.

It seems the naughtier the location selected for the highly anticipated sharing of My joy, the firmer I attend to the goal of liquid release, allowing very concentrated efforts to fullfill the moment. Of course, the longer I was able to exhibit My resistence to the highly anticipated moment, the firmer I begin approaching the time to make the final decision, shall I share or not share, its a classic question actually.

Once I have decided to share, then depending as stated on the location to aim for, a much higher level of excitement ensues, causing the aforementioned harder contractions.

In other words, I cum a hell of a lot harder if I'm cumming in her mouth.......

[Echoes]

Ok, back to the matter at hand so to speak.

As a Male I know I personally experience different levels of contractual completion. With the difference in My case being mental stimulation levels.

It seems the naughtier the location selected for the highly anticipated sharing of My joy, the firmer I attend to the goal of liquid release, allowing very concentrated efforts to fullfill the moment. Of course, the longer I was able to exhibit My resistence to the highly anticipated moment, the firmer I begin approaching the time to make the final decision, shall I share or not share, its a classic question actually.

Once I have decided to share, then depending as stated on the location to aim for, a much higher level of excitement ensues, causing the aforementioned harder contractions.

In other words, I cum a hell of a lot harder if I'm cumming in her mouth.......

mmmm thank you very much ObeyMe.
What is the difference in, ok, where do you feel this enjoyable sensation...ranging from intensity...does it build from your stomach, lower adomonen, balls? What does it feel like coming out?

[Talia]

Ok, back to the matter at hand so to speak.

As a Male I know I personally experience different levels of contractual completion. With the difference in My case being mental stimulation levels.

It seems the naughtier the location selected for the highly anticipated sharing of My joy, the firmer I attend to the goal of liquid release, allowing very concentrated efforts to fullfill the moment. Of course, the longer I was able to exhibit My resistence to the highly anticipated moment, the firmer I begin approaching the time to make the final decision, shall I share or not share, its a classic question actually.

Once I have decided to share, then depending as stated on the location to aim for, a much higher level of excitement ensues, causing the aforementioned harder contractions.

In other words, I cum a hell of a lot harder if I'm cumming in her mouth.......

hahahahahaha had me going there Obey Me..the first couple paragraphes were soo..analitical....then your last sentence...was too cute...

Echeos, I'll have to get back to this one when I have more time..I have different levels of climaxes and while we're on the subject...can someone explain the differences between..

Cumming
Orgasms
Climaxes

I've been told there are differences but don't understand all the differences.....

Talia

[ObeyMe]

Ok, YAY! talia got it......it was a classic set up and punch line...:D

echoes, in My experience, and I can only speak for Myself, the more excited I am mentally, and looking forward cumming, the more I'll cum at once, volume wise I'm speaking.

Now I'll say its very difficult to pinpoint any differences, in the source of the contractions, as it seems they all begin in the lower abdominal area and extend into the pc muscle therefore causing the entire shaft, anus and stomach to contract and give the pleasure an orgasm creates.

I will say, the more excited I am the first several contractions last longer in between 'spurts', becoming almost a 'locked up' feeling at those most intense times.

Let me add, I am so very jealous that you girls have so many souces and different types of orgasms......I wont even mention that you can have 1 to 30 a session....stomps foot...NOT FAIR!

[Havensov]

ObayMe, your right its not far.... We can manage, what, 10 seconds of truly gratify sensations of orgasm, and thats stretching it. A lady can stretch one orgasm for almost as long as she can or is able to.

I will say for me that the difference in orgasms for me is not in the orgasm itself but the feeling afterwords. This depends on position, mood, and current situation. Sweet, slow love making, while very gratifying, afterwords i usually have more energy then when i started. In retrospect i can feel totally drained after orgasming deep in her when she is on all fours.

On still another hand is blow jobs. i love to get them, but not all the way to cumming, now wait, don't get me wrong, cumming down her throat is one of the greatest feelings in the world, but, afterwords i feel so drained that i literally feel that she has sucked the life right out of me. I mean, words do not do her justice when it come to how it feels. But, this being the case i don't want it to often because i am left with no energy to server her needs afterwords, even in D/s i want to know that unless there is a good reason for it she gets her earth shattering orgasm too.

Ok, but this raises two questions for me. One, for guys, Have you ever had an achy pain in ball after you cum? That lasts for a few hours afterwords?

And Ladies? How often during orgasms do you loss control? As in, convulse wildly, arch up off the bed and are stuck there until the orgasm stops, or anything else that your body automatically when you orgasm?

[Echoes]

hahahahahaha had me going there Obey Me..the first couple paragraphes were soo..analitical....then your last sentence...was too cute...

Echeos, I'll have to get back to this one when I have more time..I have different levels of climaxes and while we're on the subject...can someone explain the differences between..

Cumming
Orgasms
Climaxes

I've been told there are differences but don't understand all the differences.....

Talia

Thanks Talia, I didnt know or think there could be differences between these...

[Echoes]

Ok, YAY! talia got it......it was a classic set up and punch line...:D

echoes, in My experience, and I can only speak for Myself, the more excited I am mentally, and looking forward cumming, the more I'll cum at once, volume wise I'm speaking.

Now I'll say its very difficult to pinpoint any differences, in the source of the contractions, as it seems they all begin in the lower abdominal area and extend into the pc muscle therefore causing the entire shaft, anus and stomach to contract and give the pleasure an orgasm creates.

I will say, the more excited I am the first several contractions last longer in between 'spurts', becoming almost a 'locked up' feeling at those most intense times.

Let me add, I am so very jealous that you girls have so many souces and different types of orgasms......I wont even mention that you can have 1 to 30 a session....stomps foot...NOT FAIR!

I take it this would not be a time to giggle softly then? :p
and during the contractions, if stimulated more, does or would this enhance the entire feeling or intensity for you, or only speed it up?

I so hope you don't mind me asking this

[Pet_Amanda]

I know for me, it all depends on position and stage of arousal. I know that if I am in doggy style, and I am red hot, I can orgasm so hard, that it feels like a volcano is erupting. Also when I am getting ate out and fingered at the same time. I love the times when afterwards, I can't stand to be touched because my body is so sensitive. I feel like I am going to have a seizure if I am touched, even with the slightest of movement. I have noticed though, since getting with my Master, that my orgasms are more intense when he is dominating me and talking dominate. Like last night for instence. He had me on all fours, and was asking me how it felt to be fucked like the bitch that I am. OMG, I was in heaven.

[Talia]

stomps foot...NOT FAIR!


uummm are you having a temper tantrum?

[Echoes]

And Ladies? How often during orgasms do you loss control? As in, convulse wildly, arch up off the bed and are stuck there until the orgasm stops, or anything else that your body automatically when you orgasm?

Once and I am not sure what this was about or what happened, but I seemed to have hit this level or point, my body levitated and held there, unable to move as the orgasm kept going and going...I was getting pretty lightheaded after a while and the only thing to stop it was take the vibrator away. It never happened again though so this is one I am curious about, still trying to learn my body.

[ObeyMe]

Yes...I'm horribly offended!! Thats why I'm sharing...LOL

And Yes talia, I am!....LOL!

Now as for the question of loss of control, for the girl, Mine will have those types of total body orgasms, along with squirting ones, along wirh those that are merely inner contractions around the stimulating device...:D

Oh and btw, what is 'making sweet love'?

Ohh and you mean not everyone tells the girl of her filthy, nasty, slutty bitchism during sex? I thought THAT was making sweet love.....I'm so confused..............

[mortsgirl]

Wait...!! There are differrent types of orgasms... no one told me.

[taintedlove]

Speaking soley for myself:

Cumming: a nice, slow, soft rolling throughout my abdomen that makes me moan. Most often felt when i'm cumming from a quiet and warm session of fingering. My knees jerk closed and my eyes close as I savor the sensations.

Orgasms: sharper, quicker, and harder pulses or jerks that cause me to lift my hips and cry out. *smiles*. Usually, these also cause my knees to fall OPEN.

Climaxes: strong, rolling waves and convulsions that take over my body, make me scream or yell. The good ones start deep inside my abdomen and pull energy from the soles of my feet, my fingers, and my breasts. This is when I ejaculate (if i'm going to) and when i want to drag out the sensations to keep them going forever. When i'm done, i feel weak, as though my muscles have turned to liquid. Usually this is the time I'm told that I'm going to cum again for my lover and I'm like, "I am?" Lightheadedness is not uncommon after a couple of climaxes.

A side note to ObeyMe: making sweet love? a Dom whispering sweet phrases about His girl's "filthy, nasty, slutty bitchism" in her ear to make her cum harder.

At least, it is in my humble opinion.

[DrkRvn]

I have had many completely different and distinct types of orgasms... some times I have quick strong violent ones, others are slow and drawn out. Some make my whole body tense until i can't breathe. There are ways to trigger certain types. Long drawn out ones happen when I am having my gspot and clit slowly rubbed for a long time... short violent ones are generally from rough fast play with my clit, or nipples... I've also noticed how my body wants to be handles changes. Some nights I can barely stand clit stimulation it just over powers me and is too much other nights i can't cum with out it practically being rubbed raw....haven't quite figured out the patten of that thought I am sure there is one...

[ObeyMe]

Gulp...........wonders if tainted has a listed phone number........where did I put that damn phone book........?!

Ahh, here it is d.....g...j....l...p....there it is Ts......dammit! No tainted.....:(

[Havensov]

If those reading don't mind a direction change.....

Orgasms that do not involve lower genital stimulation... How do they compare to other orgasms?

[DrkRvn]

I have orgasms from just having y nipples tortured. Generally for me its less strong of a feeling down there and more all over. I can still feel myself contracting, but the pleasure is everywhere.

[taintedlove]

I have had an orgasm from my nipples being played with. Usually, it takes much longer for the orgasm to build (if I'm not already rolling with multiples, which, Thank You God, I seem to be capable of). This kind of orgasm creates a tension in my entire body so that I'm completely locked up when I finally reach the peak. It's a harder, much more frustrating way to have an orgasm but the sensations are so unique, like my enire body is involved in it.

I have also had a small orgasm while kissing and having my nipples played with...that one snuck up on me. :D

[Echoes]

If those reading don't mind a direction change.....

Orgasms that do not involve lower genital stimulation... How do they compare to other orgasms?

I was kissed once...full and deep for the first time in my life and found myself having an orgasm...I do not see myself doing this again because of my squirting, the intensity often incurring a lusty moan...and I am trying to train myself to be quiet as well as not squirt...but this isn't working, so I darent' think of letting anyone kiss me again in the future.
Biting on the neck brings on an orgasm also, nipples and one muscle on the inner thighs...these are much softer (not as sharp but still very intense) orgasms but ones I wouldnt be able to remain in a standing position

[Ozme52]

Bull echoes. If you have to... wear a tampon or a depends... but have those orgasms!!! Have them loudly!!!

I'll make it an order if I have to. :rolleyes:

[nowgirl]

And being each orgasm is different; clittoral, g spot, anal, and god from kissing, biting the neck in a certain spot, inside of thighs on a certain nerve, cock penetrating that tiny ring in the back of ones throat...nipples alone, flogging alone...the violet wand brings instant orgasm to whatever it touches...What other orgasms can you add here and rate the intensity, if it is sharp, soft, affecting surrounding close nerve endings or spreading through your whole abdomenem or right down to your toes...more?

we've recently been "working" on a new kind of restriction for me - breast restriction... i've always had pretty sensitive breasts... so the added torment of this has worked up to having an orgasm simply from him allowing me to finally play with them...


Do you squirt with what ones. Do you gush inside so much that this too almost squirts out of you or having an orgasm that doesn't stop unless stimulation is not taken away...or you pass out?

i've never been really really wet - even when i feel like i should be... which is kind of a drag. HOWEVER - last week! we don't get the chance to talk on the phone more than once a week... i knew we were going to talk on a certain night so all that day, i was to masturbate just to the point of orgasm (familiar feeling, right?) he also left the fact idea i'd be able to cum that night hanging in the air.

the phone rang, we chit-chatted...which drove me even crazier since he knew how insanely lusty i was feeling (which is the point, i know!) and as we were talking about some mundane thing like the weather, he said, "put 3 fingers up your cunt kitten" - oh! oh! "fuck yourself hard," he growled, "spread your legs very very wide...try four fingers..."

a few minutes in to this hot, hard, full finger fuck he simply said, "stop." oh? oh? what? "stop - stop!" i took my fingers out which left me feeling wide and empty and wanting. i cried! "cum for me kitten," he whispered. ??? now??? i pushed down... the pressure felt surreal but was definitely there! i came so hard - and i felt something so wet wash over my cunt, my ass - (and i realized sadly later - my bedspread)... i put my hand over my cunt and i was gushing wet everywhere.

that gushing or squirting doesn't usually happen for me but there must have been something about that moment that let it go?


what orgasms do you enjoy the most, enjoy the least (if there ever is such a thing) :rolleyes:

all orgasms are a good thing! i guess it would have to be a "tie" (heh heh, i said tie...) between the complete surprise orgasms like the one above... or the first one he lets me have after a day of cum restriction... or the fourth one after that... or.................. :rolleyes: