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Recently a very good friend of mine shared with me some very painful details about a submissive mentorship experience that went horribly wrong. Those details were shared in confidence between friends and of course I am not at liberty to discuss them. Let us just say that my friends experiences did not meet the expectations for the mentorship and resulted in a lot of confusion and pain that should not have happened. ...

We always envision how things in our life will develop but in order to survive and grow we must adjust to the unexpected.

Dance for me, my love.
Take pride in the woman you are,
flaunt your erotic nature.
Be the vamp, the flirt
who winks from under the surface
of your Sunday School face.

Tease me, sexy lady.
Translate passion into motion,
move in those exotic ways
you know will stir my desire.
Be the bad girl tonight,
and in your dance, show no mercy.

fragment of a poem, by Robert Birch

Discipline and correction and how it relates to submissive training will be the final category discussed in this basic introduction to submissive training content and techniques. Some might see these two terms as meaning essentially the same thing. Others might wonder why punishment was not included in the title. To address the latter first, correction may involve punishment but punishment is generally punitive ...

I know why I feel hurt and betrayed but it doesn't make me feel any less humiliated.
I know it's not all his fault or not all my fault but it hasn't made me stop chastising myself for making assumptions.
Trust is something I give too freely at times and get hurt too often for giving.
Suck it up, deep breath, forgive both of us. I have to push this aside and go to work now...

The burning question rests upon my lips . . .

Would you offer your throat to the wolf?
Do you secretly burn to bear its mark?
Has your heart ached to feed its soul?
Do you hunger to surrender your flesh?
Do you know how hungry I am for you?

Would you offer your body to the beast?
Do you ache inside with a need to tame it?
Have you ever dreamed of being mine?
Can you conquer your fears and claim it?
Would you offer ...

[FONT="Comic Sans MS"][SIZE="3"][/SIZE]Steve drew himself from his trance and made short work of securing Jenny's legs to the table legs with the same sort of white rope he had restrained her wrists with. Jenny could only lie and listen, pliable in his hands. But as she could not help but start to relax to the gentle throbbing inside her and the sound of the gentle humming. She new Sir was now watching but the fact he was almost made her want to start to writhe and squirm in ...

I want a red dress.
I want it flimsy and cheap,
I want it too tight, I want to wear it
until someone tears it off me.
I want it sleeveless and backless,
this dress, so no one has to guess
what's underneath. I want to walk down
the street past Thrifty's and the hardware store
with all those keys glittering in the window,
past Mr. and Mrs. Wong selling day-old
donuts in their café, past the Guerra brothers
slinging ...

On Saturday, I wrote about the definition of stress (at base: what your mind does to your body when it encounters something new) and the two types of stress (the energizing "eustress" and the dulling, familiar "distress"). In order to help folks who are experiencing nervous anxiety as they begin (or contemplate beginning or panic about contemplating beginning) lifestyle changes, I offered the metaphor and science of mazes as a way of understanding what your mind is doing to ...

[FONT="Comic Sans MS"][SIZE="3"]Well, I am finding that real life is conflicting somewhat with online life at the moment. How dare it! After all what's more important. (written in sarcastic font in case you wondered LOL)

Just finding it hard to get the time at a keyboard with no one else potentially watching who shouldn't. (Honest I love my kids I really do.) There is so much I am wanting to do just now. A Friend mentioned that there are times when they feel anxious ...