hi Everyone! I am openlyrefined & just wanted to write in here & get to know some other members a little more. I have been in the lifestyle for 5 or six years, though wasn't active through all of them. I did tons of research, reading, went to muches, joined active groups, etc. Right now I am actively reading forums, joined tasking and well, really just welcome questions, comments & new friends. I have only had 1 other dom. We had met online & it was ...