Wow, thanks to everyone who left a comment on my last blog. I never expected so many suggestions. Great advice, and I'm trying to use it. It's just hard to tell him what I want when I don't know what I want. I'm still reading and trying to learn, though. It's also a problem that I'm having a hard time motivating him to do his own research. I mean, I'm trying to figure out what I like and what my limits are and communicate that to him, but he doesn't seem to be doing anything. ...