I am not really a Sub, and I am not really a Dom. While I have read quite a bit of literature and understand and find some of the information stimulating and consistent with my own growth through the years, I have never wanted to be dominated by anyone, and while I have had fantasies about dominating someone I would never do it without thier consent, so I have never truely acted on those desires. My wife came to me a few months back and told me that she was exploring this "thing ...