Why cant people just be honest? I really don't understand what would make people want lie about something in this lifestyle where there are so many ways a person can choose to live their life. Either they could be online dom/sub/switch-they could be online poly, mono, have a stable(haha) they could be a sissy maide, bitchboi, grrllygurl type. So why LIE? Or Why not just come right out and say what you want or what you are doing. I know with being online on a bdsm site(chat room) and there ...