Conversation Between cadence and derek6363

I'll send you a pm to your question

thanxs. With my gf alot of her friends are heavy into bdsm,goth and wiccan, paganism,etc. She started expressing interest in light bdsm about a month ago . We have been together for 5 months and living together. The worries I have is that she might go deep into some of these choices of life . I don t judge people that are in that to each there own . But I m worried if she decides to go deeper into the bdsm part of it I might accidently hurt her not knowing what I m doing. What would you recommend for this because I m very new to this and some of her friends r giving me bad examples of the lifestyles and I don 't want to get the wrong I dea about them so I m looking for all the help I can get

No problem at all, ask away

would you mind if I asked you some questions?