Lol, Italy is far :-) So your choices are really quite simple... you can find a nice Italian girl (I'm sure that there are Italian women into bdsm), or you could move :-P Online is an option of course, but how much fun is that? You shouldn't have any trouble finding the right girl. I have to agree everyone that's messaged before me, you're hot and I'm sure you have a killer accent. But hey, I'm sure you get that a lot. Italian men tend to be lookers... I swear I drooled the last time I was in Italy!!!