Umm, because I made like sooooooo many mistakes in my relationship, and it was like damaged cause I'd done some stupid things, my wife (now Female Head of House) got together with her (now very) long term (very) close male friend to set some ground rules and stuff like that. It has be going on for ages now and seems to work for us. She and him have (I think) a very healthy physical relationship and she has told me that she still loves and cares for me but in a more like emotional way. So I don't have the 'pressure to perform' or stuff like that and I've got my own room and things like that. I mean like he's now her, umm, Significant Other. My two best friends are well aware of the situation and most of our close friends know or suspect what is going on but they are nice people and never mention it. The two people who sorta like run my life set the boundaries though and yes I get into trouble if I cross them. I mean they know that my best friend Claire can be a bit 'loopy' sometimes so they like the stability that my other friend Simon brings. He is nice but stable and can be quite firm if I'm out with him or just relaxing round at his house. Umm, sorry to go on but if you want to know more, please just let me know. Hugs, Di. PS: Umm, they normally just call me Di unless I do something silly or stupid or wrong...then it's like "Dido" or maybe even "DIDO ANNABEL..." hence the name!!
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