Conversation Between masterjer8 and Nicipac

The best way to get them is for the 2 of you to sit down and discus what you want to do....what does she think makes her the horniest....what makes you the horniest....is there a local BDSM chapter near you? go online and look, then find out when they have their next munch and attend it....then go to the next play party and observe....find out what turns you on and what turns her on...then go home and let you own fantasies play in your heads....then write them down...sit down and read them together...make corrections....act them out...if something isnt working or doesnt feel right...stop rewrite and start again.....always think safety when it comes to any type of bondage, suspension,or movement restriction...remember pain done right is exhilarating and can be orgasmic...done wrong it is abusive and can cause serious damage...Play safe and Be well

Mostly during sex right now. Where can I get ideas for scenes?

is this a 24/7 thing or just during set play times?

No we haven't

hi..I saw your post in the forum? My first question to you would be have you and your wife sat down and filled out a contract yet?