hello, i read your personal. i am a 19 year old dom male. i have been in this lifestyle for years now. i can be very sadistic or very compassionate depending on the mood and what you are comfortable with. we could talk for hours before any actions are taken to build up a trust and respect for eachother. if youd like to chat best way to contact me would be email at drummer4lyfe3 @ aol.com. ttys hopefully