love_m
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"If what happened between you and her was love, she would at least have stayed in contact with you after withdrawing from the cyber-world." What do you mean? Perhaps you have misunderstood. I was in touch with her daily by email and telephone to the end. Since you presume to know what love is and therefore can discern what is self delusion and what is reality, please tell me what you believe love is? I have answered your questions. I would ask that you respond in kind and answer mine. It is easy to dismiss another person's opinion, but you have failed to give any evidence to why I am misguided or deluded.

She is nowhere now....she is dead. But because she is dead, does it mean that I don't love her. Does your love for someone stop when they are no longer physically around you?

It is love because, in the end, I would have given anything for her to live. Even if it meant that I would never be able to see her again and would endure a life time of heart ache because of it. It is love simply because of the willingness to give of yourself for the betterment of the other person with no expectation of getting something in return....other than the satisfaction of knowing you are helping them. Love is altruism. The willingness to endure discomfort for no logical return or benefit to yourself, simply because you want to help the other person. Love is the ache in my heart, my chest when the person is not with me. It is the smile on my face and the elation that I feel to uplift my soul when I see that person or hear there voice each day. Love is marked by the tears that I shed for their passing and the grief that I feel, knowing that I will never hear her laugh again. Love is an emotion....a strong one that can hurt me as much as it can make me swoon with happiness. Love is a word that is wholly inadequate to express a swirl of emotions. There are many forms of love...the love of family, of a friend, and of a lover....each radically different, but still a strong emotion that binds people together and causes them to give of themselves freely to help the other in a selfless manner. At the end of the day, if I tell you that I love her and my actions and words are consistent with what I have declared what does it matter if someone else doubts me?

Two questions: Why don't you think it was love? What was missing in the relationship, in your opinion, that would have made the relationship qualify as having love?

Thank you for your words of welcome.

Most probably, I won't like to add a male sub onto my friend list, unless he is really unique to me

Hey..haven't seen you in some days..hope you are doing well..just dropping in to say HI !!

*waves* Just dropping by to say hello

love_m thank you so much for you extremely flattering
comments. As for being a gentleman, its costless so why not!! And yes I asked for your comments because you where one of the first. However please feel free to comment or offer any advice you think will be of use to me on the journey!
I am so glad you left a reply, so once again thank you.
You are a beautiful and wonderful person, I hope can chat in the future
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Thank you for your sweet message on my wall, it made my day