rosemaryj {domin8tor}
Registered User

Hello my dear friend!

i am so glad to hear you are happy my darling! *hugs* rosie

~*~ smiles and hugs you ... that IS the best news i have seen for weeks !! ~*~
Leaves you a pair of thigh high boots, sheer black stockings, a plum colored flogger and cat nip

just dropped by to give hugs and kisses, well deserved I might add LOL
Always

Wow! i am truly touched! Sir Domin8tor hardly knows me! That being said, i would love to be under yalls protection. Hugs!!

*news* Looks like you're stuck with me for the time being YIPPEE - I guess same rules apply though - you can duck out any time (I can't!!!!!)

No - I'm here

You are up early as well! - Okay - I'll trust you that I won't choke - and keep that sofa clean for you even if you're not there. (Well, I will once I've found out if I'm still a sub).

Hi dear Rosemary

I've been thinking about what you said about cleaning the sofa, but have got myself tied up in knots (kinky!).

We both know that a slave is owned therefore if, for example, a slave damages/harms their body due to their own actions that can be regarded as "criminal" damage to someone else's property - i.e. their owner's (therefore can lead to severe punishment). It therefore follows that a slave is responsible for ensuring that their health is not put at risk. In a similar (but not so obvious) way subs must have the same responsibility for their own well-being.

So, using cleaning the sofa as an example, if I felt that swallowing all those animal hairs could cause me to choke thus risking damage to my health, would it not be within bdsm rules/guidance/good practice to remove that potential hazard, e.g. by vacuuming up those hairs, in order to then be able to safely execute an anticipated instruction to lick the sofa clean (of anything remaining)? Of course I might just be imagining a non-existant risk, if nobody has ever come to harm by swallowing animal hairs - therefore a counter argument would be I should always trust a Mistress/Master to know any risks associated with an order.

I'd be interested in your viewpoint - if this is a moot point worthy of discussion perhaps it may be better posted in
BDSM Q & A as a thread for dominants to answer?

Lots of luv VV

ty for the friendship given, will honor and treasure it
Always

hugs and kisses
Always