Well, I'm pretty sure I'm a switch, but most of my (limited) experience is as a sub.
I'm married; we have an open sexual relationship, and have both been exploring this aspect of ourselves (together and separately.)
As I've only recently admitted to myself that d/s is part of who I am, I'm on a
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-sorcha
out past the ideals of right and wrong, there is a field. I'll meet you there.