I've been in the lifestyle SERIOUSLY (as in not dating vanilla) since being introduced to M/s by a retired cop about six years ago. I started out sub, but quickly lost patience with all the online wanker "doms"- which made me realize that a mistress was more my fit as I've always been a strong, independent person in control of my life.
I'm single, divorced many years with grown children who are happy and have families of their own. I have a challenging job that I enjoy, and a simple, drama-free life in the woods close to Truman Lake (did I mention I have a small, free-standing dungeon?). I enjoy going to various groups and private functions in KC, Springfield and Joplin as well as events such as Thunder in the Mountains in CO and Kinky Karnival in KS. I have made some wonderful friends in the lifestyle and I've been fortunate to have some outstanding mentors along the way. I enjoy new challenges and learning new things. As far as the lifestyle, I love rope bondage, impact play, cbt, biting, pony play, sensory deprivation, foot worship, TPE, bdsm photography and erotic domination. There are many other things I am interested in but life is too busy. In time I hope to explore all that I have an interest in.
I am searching for an experienced, sincere, dedicated lifestyle slave, sub, pet or partner for a live-in situation. I understand the many different relationship possibilities and I am open to many of the various dynamics they include. In general, he should have good personal characteristics (honest, trustworthy, loyal, drama-free to name a few), be healthy, be able to support himself, D/D free, nonsmoker and have a happy personal life. My goal is for a FLR that is mutually satisfying for both partners be it Mistress/pet, Mistress/sub husband, top/bottom, or even kinky friends.