I'm 41, not married, I'm with someone who doesn't indulge my sexual fantasies. I'm very submissive and have had a past bdsm relationship with a dominant female. We explored all kinds of fetishes and she brought out a side of me I didn't know existed. Some fetishes included bdsm, cbt, tie and tease, sweaty smelly feet and socks smelling and gags, anal play, ass worship, golden shower etc