dangerous_perfection
A beautiful bitch

What makes a brilliant domme you ask?

I'm going to give this a shot. It must differ wildly from one person to the next. I can therefore only tell you what I expect from myself as a dom. We will assume that I know what I'm doing when it comes to BDSM, but I believe the brialliant dom has qualities beyond that. I really love the one I dominate because there is a clear amount of trust that has to exist and there has to be respect. It is necessary to listen, watch and respond appropriately. When the time comes to guide or otherwise instruct my sub with the proper implement it is always carried out carefully, thoughtfully. I know when it is enough, I know when there should be more, I know when the sub begs for more that it is not always right to continue. I think it is great to be mentally in sink and to have understanding of the subs desires. I insist that my sub talk to me and it is necessary for me to always get to the bottom and I do mean the bottom of the desires she has. I never allow shallow talk. She will say exactly what she means or I will coax it out of her. It is important to be forthright especially for me but it helps the sub get what she wants and deserves and I mean that respectfully. And I feel lastly don't forget the rewards! I love rewarding my subs. Those who rule by fear and physical dominance do not carry the mark of a true dom. Love, comunication, trust, and understanding are really critical in my mind. Therefore they are the mark of a true dom if not a brialliant dom.