Ring gag?

I was wondering if anyone has some experience with ring gags that they might want to share? The reason I ask is, I purchased one (1.5 in. inside diameter and leather-wrapped) for me and my GF (we're both pretty much switch) today and can't seem to wait for it to arrive. Seems like a nice naughty accessory.

I should say that niether of us is into pain play (not that I see a ring gag involved in that way), but hogties, collars with nipple clamps, and some light spanking is a mutual turn-on. We're very comfortable together and she does know about the purchase, but I'm still a bit unsure of how it will work out. I didn't want to go with a ball type gag for safety and comfort reasons. Newbie? Yeah, smart?, I hope so.

So back to the question, ring gag, turn-on or not? I think the drooling aspect might be pretty fun. Now I am searching for other ideas/experiences on how to make use of the new toy before it arrives (hopefully tomorrow!).

So basically this is a newbie post. We're comfortable with light bondage and the like. We're both quite excited by the excitement that brief deprivation provides and working from there. Basically I am just looking for feedback and input so any ideas are welcome.

While I found the sight of a ring gag in use to be somewhat sexy, I was disappointed. The reason for the ring gag is to make a slaves mouth available, which it does. But, I did not like the sensation because my slave's lips did not/could not touch me when I was in her mouth. I/we love oral sex, and lips are very important. Sir James.

Thanks for the input! I've been considering just what you've suggested to some extent and I suppose the turnon factor is a good starting point, but it sounds like this item may end up in a well-populated toy box.

But, we'll have to see and I'll post back with my own impressions.

From a sub's poínt of view

I have one (in black leather) and have used it quite a bit, though not for sucking cock in action yet, but I've asked others and tried out a bit how it would work over a cock (check my profile if you wonder...) It's a kind of gag I knew I wanted as soon as I heard of them, they look great and the idea of turning your mouth into a silenced fuckhole is sooo hot.

It's true you can't really move your lips much freely about the shaft, if it's pushed in or held with the tip just outside. I use mine putting the ring between the tooth wall and the lips (it fits that width so there is absolutely no escape once it's buckled tight). The lips then will "cover in" the ring a bit. I'm sure some others have the type as a bit gag, placing it right between the tooth lines; then I think the lips would have less space to move down. The risk of having the tongue pressed against the ring would be higher, too.

The Holder of the sub will have to do the maneuvering, mostly, if He wants a blowjob - and after the cock gets thicker, it's harder to actually move it back and forth, it gets sort of stuck at a certain point vs the ring.

You can't deep throat your sub/slave with a ring gag applied, though that happens in some stories. It would have to be removed a bit into the fuck. Well, we use condoms too, many of us, so why not take that trouble if you want to combine the use of a ring gag and deep oral.

I think the ring gag is hot, but due to physical limitations, I am not able to take advantage of the exposed opening. Things just don't fit.

The drooling, and the vulnerability are very yummy though.

i've never had the opportunity to try a ring gag but have been curious as well about the effect and more so about the feeling when performing oral

i wondered about fit and comfort for the man and how enjoyable they find it, and pretty much thought what ID has stated, does it even fit? lol

just some curiousities *s*

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Originally Posted by mastersgem

i've never had the opportunity to try a ring gag but have been curious as well about the effect and more so about the feeling when performing oral

i wondered about fit and comfort for the man and how enjoyable they find it, and pretty much thought what ID has stated, does it even fit? lol

just some curiousities *s*

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LOL it would have to be a large ID or a small cock wouldn't it.

Yeah, there is definitely a risk that when it gets hot, the ring would get trapped midway up the swelling shaft, both ring and teeth grating at the flesh - and you wouldn't be able to move the cock until after He's emptied His load in her. Not very comfortable, but the feeling of the mouth stuffed would be oh so juicy!

I have used them and the trick is a small strap to the ring it can be larger once it is outside of the mouth. The small strap will allow you to have sub put her tongue through the ring and place the ring further back in her mouth allowing the lips to be enjoyed her tongue too.

The gag factor will go up and it will take her awhile to get used to it but it can be quite thrilling to see her like this and you can have her use her tongue to massage cock either in her mouth or just outside of it.

i would have to agree with a lot of what was said. i love the control and humiliation factor of being in one but they are definitely not for the inexperienced. One with a rubber or leather cover is a lot easier on the teeth especially for anything beyond a short session. Although your lips cover over the ring if it's in tight it doesn't help much when you're giving a blow job, your tongue and throat have to do all the work. It is a little more difficult since you have absolutely no control over what is put in your mouth and how rough/deep it is put in.

While they can be worn for long term they really make your mouth tired/sore and are really messy to sleep in from a drool standpoint.

Wow, sleeping with a ring gag on is something I wouldn't even have thought of doing! ;)

Seriously, one of the first security rules in bondage is: never leave soomeone who is both bound nad gagged alone, except just for a few moments,

a lot of Dominants love the look even if there isn't any other bondage along with it

What about ideas of punishment. I mean what do others like to go for when their slave has an exposed ring-gagged open mouth? :)

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Originally Posted by Longterm247

What about ideas of punishment. I mean what do others like to go for when their slave has an exposed ring-gagged open mouth? :)

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I don't generally use something I like for fun as punishment. Can be confusing for the submissive when you incorporate deep mental exchange of power.

In other words, it leaves the sub confused as to why your doing it from time to time if you don't explain the purpose each time, and I use little talk during play. I feel it enhances some of the non-verbal nuances.

If I use the same form of punishment each time, then when I begin the activity the submissive understands it is punishment, and post punishment during the emotional reassurance that everything is done, and the transgression is paid for I don't have to explain that it was or wasn't punishment. I feel it allows the submissive to process the experience better, and put behind them the feeling of disappointment they think I have in them.

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Originally Posted by IDCrewDawg

I don't generally use something I like for fun as punishment. Can be confusing for the submissive when you incorporate deep mental exchange of power.

In other words, it leaves the sub confused as to why your doing it from time to time if you don't explain the purpose each time, and I use little talk during play. I feel it enhances some of the non-verbal nuances.

If I use the same form of punishment each time, then when I begin the activity the submissive understands it is punishment, and post punishment during the emotional reassurance that everything is done, and the transgression is paid for I don't have to explain that it was or wasn't punishment. I feel it allows the submissive to process the experience better, and put behind them the feeling of disappointment they think I have in them.

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Well reasoned, well said. Nothing more need be added, in my opinion

Never thought of these as pleasurable to dom, despite their prevelance in pornography. I never thought of the dam thing scraping your cock was worth the effort to force deep-throat your slave. Should be used exclusively to punish the wearer. They are devine for drooling, force feeding, ashtrays, etc, however.

I've only tried one of these once, the last time I did a photoshoot. I hated it and I usually love gags. Main reason was because it was so intractable. Its metal, it has no give in it, so you have to get the right size to fit in your mouth otherwise it is really uncomfortable. And if they are not covered in leather they are more of a pain.

Thats not to say I wouldn't agree to have one in again... :) Was surprised at how easy it was for Mistress to get the strap on into my mouth when it was in - there was no way I cold resist.

I think a ball gag is a better first gag for a beginner. A small ball made of a very soft material (so soft rubber or leather ball not hard rubber) or one of the gags with holes in (or a ball gag where the ball has holes in it) to assist breathing. There are many options for gags so shop around if you find the ring gag too much once it arrives. Just don't leap straight into a butterfly gag on your first try.... :) Trust me on this... it can be an overwhelming experience even for an experienced gag wearer like me... :)

Safety points... never leave a sub bound and gagged alone for any lenght of time and make sure you keep an eye on vital signs all through the session (any trouble breathing? Changes in skin colour? Pulse rate?) as the sub will be unable to tell you themselves.