Hello My Fellow Perverts

Hi all.

I'm Neil, a straight 27 year old vanilla escort from the UK. My experience with BDSM is limited, though I'd say I was quite knowledgeable about it. It's something I've been interested in for a few years now. I have some experience with it online but nothing in person. The psychological aspect of it all appeals to me greatly.

I'm a very strong character and in my day to day dealings with people I am quite dominate, I'm also known for taking the lead when others are stuck in the abyss of indecision, and I do like being in control - in bed and out of it. I feel my inexperience leaves me lacking something when it comes to being on the dominant side of a BDSM relationship though. As for the submissive side of things, that excites me too. Having a capable woman turning her attentions to me, satisfying her every whim, knowing that my submission pleases her, and even being somewhat owned, are all things that turn me on a lot. I guess when it comes down to it I'm a switch, but leaning towards submissive while I'm still fairly inexperienced.

Well I joined this site to lean more and make some like-minded friends, and if I can find someone suitable to take me under their heel and give me some much needed experience then I'll be a very happy man.

Thanks for reading.

Hiya Neil and thank you for your thoughtful intro...I hope you'll share more as you go along! :wel to the forums - good to have you here! :)

Hi, thanks for the welcome. I'm sure I'll share plenty in time, I'm very much an open book. (:

Thanks for a decent intro Neil. Welcome.

Hey who are you calling a pevert?? I'm a....yeah you're right.

Hope you enjoy it here. :wel

Tojo

:welcomebo Neil...hope you learn more and enjoy yourself here.

Hi Neil and welcome. You sound very much how I feel.

Hi Neil! I hope you like it here. I do.

Tojo: A pervert is just someone with the balls to be honest! (:

Warbaby: How do you mean?

So anyway I have a question for all you lovely people... what is it you like about this site and what do you find most useful about it?

This site is a wealth of information. Most of what I know I learned through here. What I like most is the relaxed atmophere we have....(thanks mostly for our new Admin....Aesop). I like I have a place to go to get a way from my troubles to enjoy and share with such wonder people.

I hope you will be able to find this place to be the same..

Enjoy

subwife

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Originally Posted by Neil

Hi all.
I feel my inexperience leaves me lacking something when it comes to being on the dominant side of a BDSM relationship though. As for the submissive side of things, that excites me too. Having a capable woman turning her attentions to me, satisfying her every whim, knowing that my submission pleases her, and even being somewhat owned, are all things that turn me on a lot. I guess when it comes down to it I'm a switch, but leaning towards submissive while I'm still fairly inexperienced.

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Your words, my sentiments exactly.

What I like most about this site is the people here...and the friendly and open atmosphere for discussions of any kind...I feel I can be myself without being judged, and that's rare even in our supposedly liberal times. It's a home. :)

Welcome, Neil, i was attracted by this site by the knowledge base, it has always been good and there are some really great threads in there, its well worth going back through the pages to take a look.

I hope this site is as uesfull as we say it is for you (im sure it will be)

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Originally Posted by submissivewife

This site is a wealth of information. Most of what I know I learned through here. What I like most is the relaxed atmophere we have....(thanks mostly for our new Admin....Aesop). I like I have a place to go to get a way from my troubles to enjoy and share with such wonder people.

I hope you will be able to find this place to be the same..

Enjoy

subwife

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Awww shucks subwife.....She gives me too much credit Neil. The relaxed atmosphere has a lot more to do with the membership than with anything I did. What I like about this site is that it stands out from so many of the other bdsm sites out there. No trolls, no posturing from the doms, no posturing from the subs for that matter. We discuss more than d/s subjects here and we act like the human beings we are, not arrogant robots spouting the standard phrases you see on other message boards. Welcome and enjoy. :)

I enjoy this board because its active. Because it doesnt allow bullshit. Because its well managed. Because I can come here, and not feel as though I must prove who i am or what I am about. To me, this board epitomizes the word pansexual when speaking about acceptance. I intend to own a fetish club one day, and I have in mind what I want it to be like. The qualities I find here are very much what I hope to have for those in attendance.

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Originally Posted by Aesop

Awww shucks subwife.....She gives me too much credit Neil. The relaxed atmosphere has a lot more to do with the membership than with anything I did. What I like about this site is that it stands out from so many of the other bdsm sites out there. No trolls, no posturing from the doms, no posturing from the subs for that matter. We discuss more than d/s subjects here and we act like the human beings we are, not arrogant robots spouting the standard phrases you see on other message boards. Welcome and enjoy. :)

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BUT Aesop....it IS because of your dedication that turned this site around....don't be modest in this....I should know...I was here before the new admin.....SO take your complement and be happy. :whip2: