Hi all.

I'm Neil, a straight 27 year old vanilla escort from the UK. My experience with BDSM is limited, though I'd say I was quite knowledgeable about it. It's something I've been interested in for a few years now. I have some experience with it online but nothing in person. The psychological aspect of it all appeals to me greatly.

I'm a very strong character and in my day to day dealings with people I am quite dominate, I'm also known for taking the lead when others are stuck in the abyss of indecision, and I do like being in control - in bed and out of it. I feel my inexperience leaves me lacking something when it comes to being on the dominant side of a BDSM relationship though. As for the submissive side of things, that excites me too. Having a capable woman turning her attentions to me, satisfying her every whim, knowing that my submission pleases her, and even being somewhat owned, are all things that turn me on a lot. I guess when it comes down to it I'm a switch, but leaning towards submissive while I'm still fairly inexperienced.

Well I joined this site to lean more and make some like-minded friends, and if I can find someone suitable to take me under their heel and give me some much needed experience then I'll be a very happy man.

Thanks for reading.