Another collaring

I'm new, but I read the thread about collaring and wanted to share also.
I met him online, and in-person met last July. He came back in Oct, and I went to him in Nov. (Long dist.r/ship) He asked me to marry back in July, then mentioned something about getting me a collar. At the time I had no idea of what he was talking about, he explained, but no collar was given.

I am moving in with him (across the country) in 3wks, and he said that he has the collar and wants to have it on me -in the airport after I land. :) Now that I understand what it means, I am really honored and happy! I was feeling very strange about wearing one, as all of my friends and family are strictly vanilla and have no idea of my budding lifestyle choices. So I guess this is the only place I can 'tell the world' how freaking happy I am :cool:
Someone asked about a lifestyle wedding in the other thread. What is that exactly?

Great to hear that, really happy for you. Hope it all works out fine between the 2 of you.

Lifestyle wedding can be very involved, or simply the vows exchanged.

Ours was a vows style wedding. The words exchanged were meaningful to us, and what our relationship meant to the other.

Congratulations on your budding status with your new found mate. I wish you eternal happiness.

ID

Thanks a lot for your good wishes!
That means a lot to me. :)

You know, it's funny ~had an ex call me today re: Happy New Year type of thing. He wanted to chat about sex in general, but I couldn't do it. I explained that my 'man' (he's vanilla) would not like it, please stop talking to me about it. I felt so strong and free doing that. I just feel this incredible type of tie to my master and I never want to break it, even in casual conversation.
I find it hard not to be able to have like-minded people around me, but I guess I have to get used to it don't I?:icon277:

congratulations!

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Thanks a lot for your good wishes!
That means a lot to me. :)

You know, it's funny ~had an ex call me today re: Happy New Year type of thing. He wanted to chat about sex in general, but I couldn't do it. I explained that my 'man' (he's vanilla) would not like it, please stop talking to me about it. I felt so strong and free doing that. I just feel this incredible type of tie to my master and I never want to break it, even in casual conversation.
I find it hard not to be able to have like-minded people around me, but I guess I have to get used to it don't I?:icon277:

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Except here. Congratulations and all the happiness in the world to you and your Master.

Wow, you guys are so warm and friendly!
Thanks so much.:)

3wks today, to go. Now I'm getting a little nervous about the collaring.
I guess it's like wedding jitters? I mean, I'm not changing my mind, but I'm just getting a bit skittish. Is this normal? One could argue that it's "just a collar", but I truly don't feel that it's "just" anything. It's very important to me. Maybe that's why I'm getting twisty...

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Originally Posted by sub17

Wow, you guys are so warm and friendly!
Thanks so much.:)

3wks today, to go. Now I'm getting a little nervous about the collaring.
I guess it's like wedding jitters? I mean, I'm not changing my mind, but I'm just getting a bit skittish. Is this normal? One could argue that it's "just a collar", but I truly don't feel that it's "just" anything. It's very important to me. Maybe that's why I'm getting twisty...

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Any major change in your life can cause the jitters. Relax and let it happen.

All the best wishes to both of you! :)

:hihi: Thanks...only 9 days to go....whooowhoooo.....I think I miss him more, knowing what's waiting for me. The nervousness is gone...just want to get there. This is the LONGEST wait for me!!

I just can't believe how into him I am. It's weird, but great too, if that makes sense.

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One could argue that it's "just a collar", but I truly don't feel that it's "just" anything.

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I don't think you will find anyone here saying 'just a collar'.

cariad

True enough.

Sorry, I'm still a bit of a newbie and just adjusting to talking to like-minded others.