Thanks, Nat, you truly made my day. :kiss:
Lots and lots of love, today and always, :iluvu:
Ruby
XXX OOO XXX OOO
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Thanks, Nat, you truly made my day. :kiss:
Lots and lots of love, today and always, :iluvu:
Ruby
XXX OOO XXX OOO
Awww, reading about the intimacy you two share truly warms my cockles. (Although, I have NO idea what a 'cockle' is! :dunno: ) LOL
Please, continue to allow us a glimpse into your love story, OK?!
Okay. We will. :) Thanks for asking.
You know, I always wondered that MYSELF. Lol
Quote:
Originally Posted by Katmandu
Cockle~ 1) any of various mollusks~ Hmmm, you mean like oysters? :D
2) any of series of plants growing like weeds~ hmmm, you mean like pot? :D
Either way, I think I like these 'cockles'!
But, why would you warm them???
PS, Sorry Ruby, for this slight sidetrack in your thread. I just thought it humorous. :dunno:
Dear Ruby,
It is so nice to read such a detailed and thought provoking description of your decisions to include Nathaniel in your life. I always enjoy the fantasies of having a third person in the mix but was quite unsure how to cover the real life aspect of having a third person in the marriage bed. You and T have included Nathaniel in such a warm friendly way, yet you do have limits that were openly discussed between the three of you. I was quite delighted that you were open about the “fantasy Ruby” and real life Ruby.
Thank you for the clarification of how the limits were set and information on outercourse.
You as always have my respect and I think you are amazing, Jasmine
Jasmine,
T, Nat and I thank you for your post. It meant a great deal to us.
All,
We wrestle with how much to tell, versus how much not to tell, every day. Just because we choose to keep our limits hard and probably more strict than other couples/partners doesn't mean that it's any more right or wrong. It's just right for us.
I've found that to keep a marriage relationship happy and healthy, it takes about 110% of effort from both parties. When you add someone else to the mix, it can either harm or help the relationship, but seldom does it have no affect at all.
My husband, T, wants, needs and deserves the majority of my attention whenever we are together. As a mother, daughter, friend and business owner, other relationships needs care and feeding as well. This means that playtime with Nat comes after all the other priorities in my life.
Notice, I didn't say my relationship with Nat was any less important than my other relationships, because it's not. It's just that our playtime doesn't get the top priority.
I like to be in very close contact with Nat every day whether it's a phone call, an e-mail, or a yahoo IM. We exchange pictures, jokes and stories. When we find a moment and I ask, "Do you want to play?" and I hear, "Yes, Miss.", then I know we are going to have a good time.
The more open I am with my men about my wants and desires, the more open they are with me about theirs. Honesty and mutual respect are critical to the success of this adventure.
By respecting each person's limits and keeping an open line of communication, the jealousy factor that creeps into any relationship, is kept to a minimum and often stamped out before it can attempt to drive a wedge between any of us.
All the best,
Ruby
Dearest Ruby....you continue to amaze me with your words of wisdom, your outpouring of love for all those in your life, and your kindness!
It was truly a wonderful thing to read about....you getting to meet your Nat and he you...I know it must have been thrilling for you both and am glad you both, along with T, have allowed us a little peek into your lives!
Thank you for continuing to be one of the brightest and most loving people I know!
hugs and kisses
~ltp~
Thanks LTP,
You make me blush with your kind words.
Thank you for being such an active and delightful poster on the forums, I learn a great deal from you.
All,
When Nat and I started this thread, we had no idea how much fun we would have giving everyone that peek in to our lives and fantasies.
We'll get back to work on those fantasies ASAP. :-)
I truly enjoy Nat's writing and he is a wonderful muse for my own.
Ruby
When we last left Nat, in our fantasy play, he was looking in a mirror and I was standing behind him.
"What shall we do next, pet?" I ask, my hands tracing his shoulders.
"Are you ready to eat, Miss? I've prepared dinner," he responds.
"The thought of the lovely you,
dressed for serving,
taking your time about feeding your miss,
yummy.
I imagine, tying you to a chair with silk cords,
securing your ponytail to the back of the chair so you can't put your head too far down,
then inviting in a few ladies to help feed you and keep you ready for me.
Mmmmmm......
They would coo over you,
such a good boy,
perhaps one would have her own pet shackled and nearby,
watching shyly, yet hungrily,
wanting to be in your spot,
but not yet allowed the pleasure.
We'd sit around the table,
enjoying the dessert you've made, with coffee and tea.
The other pet would be serving, something you desire to do,
but you are busy being hand fed and fussed over.
Your ribbon bounces between your legs,
your nipples are hard like pebbles,
so tempting to taste,
that I don't bother to hold back,
yet instead lean my head down to suckle you.
One of the ladies whispers naughty things in your ear,
telling you what she wants to do to you,
while the other feeds you another bite of dinner.
Your hands grip the chair,
your hips are bucking,
pleasing me with your excitement,
knowing I like you to wiggle I trace your hard cock with my fingertips.
Your chest is thrust forward.
What a delightful site you make.
Mmmmmm......"
"May I dress you for dinner, Miss?"
"Yes, Pet. That would be very nice. Let's move to the bedroom and you may select something from the closet."
(C) 2005 Ruby Bloodstone All Rights Reserved
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We'll continue our story here:
http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/showthread.php?t=3882
If you'd like to join us, please send me a PM.
WELCOME TO THE FAMILY Nathaniel.
It's been awhile since I've written about Nat and my playtime, but each session brings me joy and happiness.
We've grown as pet and miss, and Nat has made huge steps in understanding how I want him to communicate with me.
Recently, in the middle of a scene, I gave Nat a choice of two things I wanted to do, and asked him to pick one.
Now I knew that one of those choices I would enjoy much more than he.
Such a question in the past would have set his mind spinning, trying to figure out if I wanted him to "suffer" or not. This time, my sweet angel didn't hesitate. He chose the one he wanted to do knowing
a. he could
b. it wasn't a test
and
c. I wouldn't have asked him to choose if I wanted one thing over another.
By making a decision and letting me know what he wanted, he has overcome a huge hurdle.
In the past, such a question would have produced a response that I was his Miss and it was my right to choose, whatever I wanted... and other rehearsed mumblings.
While some dom/mes prefer this type of answer, not me. If I ask a question where a choice is involved, I'm not playing a mind game. I want to hear my pet's choice.
For example, if I say, "Do you want to wear the blue or red shirt?", the answer had better be what my pet wants, because that's what he'll be wearing. Otherwise, I would have just chosen the shirt and told my pet to put it on.
A big congratulations to my wonderful pet, Nathaniel!
I second that congratulations, Ruby. :)
It's great to hear that you and Nat have evolved in your relationship Ruby! I know he must think he is in heaven to have you as his Mistress! And I know you feel the same about him! It's always wonderful to read about the two of you!:)